From Pain to Platform: My Story

Aderonke Fatile, author and speaker

My name is Aderonke Fatile, and my story began with silence and struggle, but it didn’t end there.

I was once a breadwinner wife, enduring emotional, financial, and spiritual abuse. Like many women, I lost my voice trying to prove my worth.

But God turned my breaking point into a turning point.

The Turning Point:

When I chose to walk away from what was breaking me, I discovered that my battle wasn’t just personal, it was generational and systemic. I realized women everywhere were being taught endurance instead of wholeness, silence instead of boundaries, and shame instead of identity.

My Mission Today:

Now, I help women reclaim their identity, establish healthy boundaries, and rise into the fullness of their God-designed purpose.

Through my books, New Dawn Haven community, and speaking, I create spaces where women can heal and breakfree from cycles of endurance.

My Core Beliefs

Women’s worth is not tied to what they can endure

Boundaries are biblical stewardship

Healing is a journey,
not a destination

Marriage should enhance, not diminish a woman’s life

Identity comes from God,
not endurance